North Star Cremation Necklace in 14K Yellow Gold with Diamonds

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Enhanced by eight sparkling white diamonds, our north star pendant acts as a guide to you during your moments of deepest grief. When you feel most lost, our hope is that wearing this 14k yellow gold pendant with your loved one's solidified ashes will help you find healing and love. Remember that the love of those you hold dear can always be your guiding light.

Dimensions & Details:
Setting: 14 x 11mm 
Overall: 26 x 14mm
Diamonds: 0.05ct (total) | x4 - 0.9mm, x4 - 1.3mm

All dimensions are approximate and may vary slightly with every casting. The precious stones themselves do not contain ashes; only the setting of the piece does.

The north star diamond pendant is solid 14k yellow gold, but comes with a 14/20 yellow-gold-filled chain in the length of your choice from the options below. Information about matching solid 14k gold chains is available by request as well.

This pendant can be engraved with up to 8 characters, including spaces and simple symbols, across the widest point of its back. Examples of the font options available for engraving can be seen here. If you have any engraving-related questions, please submit your inquiry in the contact form below or send us an email.

In addition to this piece, we carry a version without diamonds in 14k yellow gold and other metals. Complete your set with the north star ring or north star ring with diamonds, or any other piece from our celestial collection.

A note from Gina...The original of my North-Star pieces, now with diamonds, I created this pendant originally as an homage to my mom. She use to tell me that I came from the brightest star, and that I had a special magic. Every night since she passed, when I see the North Star, I blow it a kiss knowing that it will reach her. My love of space stemmed from this practice and my mother's words, and I have since imparted this love on my own sons. Once, when viewing a show about space, a scientist mentioned that we are all made up of Stardust - know that your loved ones are with you, watching, no matter where you go.

Each piece is set in our office, located in Southern California. Only a very small amount of ashes is used in the setting process; the exact amount needed depends on the size and depth of the piece's setting, but for simplicity's sake, a teaspoon of ashes will suffice for most orders. The setting process solidifies the ashes and brings out their natural color, which may differ from those in the piece photographed. Within 1 business day of placing your order, you will receive a detailed order confirmation with information and instructions relevant to your unique order.

For more information about our cremation jewelry and the order process, please visit our FAQ page, or reach out to us at closebyme@gmail.com.

1. Choose your memorial piece
Select the jewelry you’d like and any add-ons, such as engraving or size/length options, then complete checkout.

2. Send a small amount of ashes
We recommend sending 1 teaspoon (total) of ashes for orders of 1-5 pieces; for larger orders, we suggest sending 1 tablespoon. We'll send you a detailed email with step-by-step instructions on how to safely send the ashes (or mail your kit, if selected).

3. We handcraft your jewelry
Once your chosen piece arrives from our jeweler, the ashes setting is individually handcrafted here in our studio.

4. Receive your finished jewelry & remaining ashes
Your completed order is thoughtfully packaged with a jewelry box and care instructions. Any unused ashes are carefully returned to you.

Read more → How to Order & FAQ

Can I put the ashes in myself or have my local funeral home do it?
Our cremation jewelry is crafted using a patented process that solidifies the ashes and bonds them directly to the metal. Because of this unique method, our pieces must be completed in our studio and cannot be done at home or by a funeral home. This ensures your memorial jewelry is durable, long-lasting, and made exactly as intended.

Is it okay to wear my cremation jewelry in the shower, pool, or ocean?
We do not recommend wearing your cremation jewelry in the pool or ocean, as chlorine and saltwater can be damaging to the ashes setting and metal.

You may wear your piece in the shower, but keep in mind the minerals and chemicals present in many skincare products can discolor or mattify the ashes setting. While it's best to remove your cremation jewelry before showering, if you do choose to leave it on, we recommend rinsing it thoroughly and drying it afterward to prevent any residue buildup.

All of our cremation jewelry comes with a lifetime warranty for the ashes setting. If the setting ever becomes dull, discolored, or damaged, you can send it back to us to be restored or redone. There is no fee for this service; we only ask that you cover the shipping costs.

Can I wear my cremation jewelry every day?
Yes, absolutely! Our cremation jewelry is created to be worn as often as you’d like — whether that's every day, on special occasions, or anything in between.

That said, it is still fine jewelry, so a bit of mindful care will help preserve its beauty over time. We recommend removing your piece before activities that may involve physical impact or contact with chemicals, such as exercising, swimming, gardening, or cleaning. This helps protect both the metal and the ashes setting.

Read our full care instructions → Care & Cleaning for Resin Jewelry

Will the color of the ashes setting match the one pictured?
Ashes are like fingerprints: entirely unique to your loved one. No color is added to the ashes during the setting process, so the finished jewelry will reflect their natural hue, which may differ from those photographed.

Can I send something other than or in addition to ashes, such as hair, breastmilk, or another sentimental material?
Yes! We are happy to accept a variety of other materials, including but not limited to: hair/fur, sand, soil, powdered breastmilk, dried flower petals, fabric, crushed gemstones, and more. Please reach out to discuss your unique memorial setting.

Still have questions? Read our full list of FAQs or contact us using the form below!