CBM-207
A subtle and timeless piece, and one of close by me's first designs, this 14k rose gold ring features a thin channel setting for your loved one's ashes and gentle tapering band.
Dimensions:
Setting: 12 x 3mm
Band: 3 to 2mm (tapers)
All dimensions are approximate and may vary slightly with every casting.
This ring can be engraved with up to approximately 20 characters, including spaces and simple symbols, behind the setting. Examples of the font options available for engraving can be seen here. If you have any engraving-related questions, please submit your inquiry in the contact form below or send us an email.
A thicker, more substantial version of this ring was designed as a men's partner ring to this piece, carried on our website in 14k rose gold and other metals.
Each piece is set in our office, located in Southern California. Only a very small amount of ashes is used in the setting process; the exact amount needed depends on the size and depth of the piece's setting, but for simplicity's sake, a teaspoon of ashes will suffice for most orders. The setting process solidifies the ashes and brings out their natural color, which may differ from those in the piece photographed. Within 1 business day of placing your order, you will receive a detailed order confirmation with information and instructions relevant to your unique order.
For more information about our cremation jewelry and the order process, please visit our FAQ page, or reach out to us at closebyme@gmail.com.
1. Choose your memorial piece
Select the jewelry you’d like and any add-ons, such as engraving or size/length options, then complete checkout.
2. Send a small amount of ashes
We recommend sending 1 teaspoon (total) of ashes for orders of 1-5 pieces; for larger orders, we suggest sending 1 tablespoon. We'll send you a detailed email with step-by-step instructions on how to safely send the ashes (or mail your kit, if selected).
3. We handcraft your jewelry
Once your chosen piece arrives from our jeweler, the ashes setting is individually handcrafted here in our studio.
4. Receive your finished jewelry & remaining ashes
Your completed order is thoughtfully packaged with a jewelry box and care instructions. Any unused ashes are carefully returned to you.
Read more → How to Order & FAQ
Can I put the ashes in myself or have my local funeral home do it?
Our cremation jewelry is crafted using a patented process that solidifies the ashes and bonds them directly to the metal. Because of this unique method, our pieces must be completed in our studio and cannot be done at home or by a funeral home. This ensures your memorial jewelry is durable, long-lasting, and made exactly as intended.
Is it okay to wear my cremation jewelry in the shower, pool, or ocean?
We do not recommend wearing your cremation jewelry in the pool or ocean, as chlorine and saltwater can be damaging to the ashes setting and metal.
You may wear your piece in the shower, but keep in mind the minerals and chemicals present in many skincare products can discolor or mattify the ashes setting. While it's best to remove your cremation jewelry before showering, if you do choose to leave it on, we recommend rinsing it thoroughly and drying it afterward to prevent any residue buildup.
All of our cremation jewelry comes with a lifetime warranty for the ashes setting. If the setting ever becomes dull, discolored, or damaged, you can send it back to us to be restored or redone. There is no fee for this service; we only ask that you cover the shipping costs.
Can I wear my cremation jewelry every day?
Yes, absolutely! Our cremation jewelry is created to be worn as often as you’d like — whether that's every day, on special occasions, or anything in between.
That said, it is still fine jewelry, so a bit of mindful care will help preserve its beauty over time. We recommend removing your piece before activities that may involve physical impact or contact with chemicals, such as exercising, swimming, gardening, or cleaning. This helps protect both the metal and the ashes setting.
Read our full care instructions → Care & Cleaning for Resin Jewelry
Will the color of the ashes setting match the one pictured?
Ashes are like fingerprints: entirely unique to your loved one. No color is added to the ashes during the setting process, so the finished jewelry will reflect their natural hue, which may differ from those photographed.
Can I send something other than or in addition to ashes, such as hair, breastmilk, or another sentimental material?
Yes! We are happy to accept a variety of other materials, including but not limited to: hair/fur, sand, soil, powdered breastmilk, dried flower petals, fabric, crushed gemstones, and more. Please reach out to discuss your unique memorial setting.
Still have questions? Read our full list of FAQs or contact us using the form below!
Perfect
Izzy and I lost Monte almost 6 months ago. The grief has been something like I've never experienced before, and it's ongoing. I can sometimes go hours, or days, or even weeks without crying. And then suddenly something will trigger me, and it's just like it happened yesterday. I'm hit by a wave of grief that topples me over, so strong that all I can do is let it happen and accept it. Right after we lost Monte I knew I wanted something to keep him close. I knew it would help with my grief and I wanted it right away, but I also knew that I wanted to take my time and make sure I found a piece that I would love forever. I did a lot of research and decided on Close by me jewelry for a few reasons. I liked that the business is small and run by women. The owner and founder, Gina, shared her own story on the website, and I loved that she'd been through her own experiences and that this business is personal for her. And I loved that the jewelry Gina makes is different from other cremation jewelry. I wanted to be able to see Monte's ashes and other cremation jewelry is often colored, looking almost like a druzy stone instead of what it actually is. The process from placing the order.to receiving my ring took about 6 weeks and Gina was in constant contact with me, helping to lift my anxiety over having some of Monte's ashes gone. She wanted to hear Monte's story and see pictures of him, which let me know that each piece she makes is personal to her. And then I received the ring, and although looking at it makes me miss Monte, it also does exactly what I need, it helps me to feel close to him. Today is so bittersweet, but I am so thankful to Gina and her team. I will cherish this piece of jewelry forever.
A healing experience
This process of working with Gina has been a light through the difficulty of my loved ones death. The ring is beautiful and lifted my spirits when I saw it. Gina wrote a personalized note that was so special to read. She incorporates care and love into her work and interactions with her clients. This has been a supportive and compassionately held experience for me thanks to the way of being she holds.
Beautiful
I’m not a necklace person, and almost all cremation jewelry are necklaces/pendants, but I wear rings regularly. So when I found this website and all the ring options it was the perfect option for me. Working with the artist was great, she was very respectful and communicative. It took a little longer than I had expected (about 8 weeks) but it was worth it. The artist even included a free sterling silver charm made with my dads ashes, which was really kind and generous of her. I was able to give it to my mom to have something to remember my dad with, and she really appreciated it.
Makes me smile every time I look at it
After a lot of research on cremation jewelry it was obvious to me as soon as I came across Close By Me that the quality and design was exactly what I desired. I was right. The ring is exquisite. I can take Sammy with me on many more adventures now. Gina's customer service was impeccable.
Absolutely Beautiful
Words cannot describe how great my experience was with Gina. She was quick to respond and communicated with me during the whole process. She wanted to know about my baby girl and she was so compassionate throughout. The ring was breathtaking, I could not have asked for a more stunning ring. To be able to carry my baby girl with me everywhere means the world to me and I cannot thank Gina enough. She really puts her heart into every piece and it shows. I would recommend her to anyone suffering through a loss. Thank you so much, Gina. Words cannot express my gratitude.